Wednesday, July 8, 2009

¡Habla conmigo!

Por favor.

Thank you to Mr. Alexander Graham Bell for the telefono. If it wasn't for this wonderful invention, we would be writing notes for pigeons to carry across the nation.

Communication is such a vast subject to talk about. Yeah, I know.

Here's something everybody can agree to.

In relationships, what do people always say that is needed for it to be successful?

C O M M U N I C A T I O N !!

Right? Without interacting with your partner, you'll end up having numerous assumptions and hunches.

Evidently, boys and girls are different. They have different builds, and different mentalities. At times, their thoughts coincide, which makes them understand one another.

Keep in mind that this is only a generalization.

  • Girls are more to hold everything unless they're acknowledged and understood. They won't shut up until they get what they need or want to hear. They let out their emotions regardless of its adverseness. They love it when somebody actually pays attention. Regardless if it's nonsensical, they love getting attention from whom they love and admire. In spite of anything, they love it when they are reassured. Little shit makes them happy. Sometimes, they might sound like they're whining, but it's really a plead for recognition.
  • Boys, on the other hand, do not like to argue. Most of the time, they'll just agree to anything. Why? To cut off the bridge to a supposedly up-coming argument. Even if they have something to say, they would just assume what the possibilities are. They think that if they just agree with everything, the problems will eventually dissolve away into oblivion. EHHH, wrong. They listen, but hardly pay attention. They might repeat what a girl has said, but not necessarily understand. They don't like getting advice because they feel weak. In their minds, they are the conquerors. They think they can solve anything doing it their way.
Problems do not go away
until they are resolved and until an accord is settled.

Ano ba `yan?
Bakit palagi sa aking nangyayari `to?
Every fuckin' time.
Mahal kita,
pero wala na akong magagawa.

`Wag ka sana sa aking magalit.
I tried.


  1. Diz hoe gedding cheaded on

  2. should of stayed with the other guy you sweating this guy way too much for no reason.

  3. That was the past, and this is now.

    Should'ves doesn't work in present day situations. Even if, I wouldn't.

    This post was just a thought.

  4. hey pano mo napopost sa facebook tong mga blog mo? d ko alam e..

  5. Response to your ending note:

    Since you're still pretty young, even though you consider yourself mature; in my opinion, I think you're still at that point of just having fun and not getting in a committed relationship. So, you shouldn't worry too much about the relationships you get into. Enjoy your youth.

    Unless, you are in want/need of a committed relationship, you should really get to know the guy more and make sure he's the one you'd really see yourself with in the future. Not just because of all the positives he may have in his personality traits.

    *Just a thought. =)

  6. Seem like you don't even know this person well and got with him.

  7. make a valid point here. Boys and girls think way differently from each other when it comes to communication. Often times things said via text message or IM are misinterpreted and can lead to confusion because you can't tell the other person's tone. Thank God for telephones. Although I don't like using them unless I have to.

    Cool blog by the way. I'm a new follower. =D

  8. yeah the anonymous guy is dont even know this person well and you got with him. you shouldve got to know him longer and see if he's right. someone was waiting for me to say yes and i knew him for a long time and i knew his personality and the kind of guy he was. but i just made him wait just for dramatic effect. but now we are living happily as can be.

  9. GREAT points.

    I fully understand. =]

    Thank you, guys.


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